An Open Letter to John
Dear John,
I wanted to share how grateful I am for you and your life and all that you bring. I could always count on you to be on my side and encourage me to keep going. You were always willing to do the difficult things in hard times and help your family with whatever they needed. You have never complained or felt too big to do the small things no one else wanted to do. Your humility and support show your kind and loving heart.
I’m grateful for our years in marriage together full of beautiful memories and fulfilling adventures. Although it might not have been your first choice, you were always willing to go with me to the ends of the earth. You made me laugh when I wanted to cry and cheered me up whenever I felt down.
You were devoted to your children every single day, lovingly caring for them, and always showing up 100%. You cuddled them, played with them, and were everyone’s favorite dad on the street. I appreciate your dedication and unwavering active love you brought as a parent.
Our years of collaborating in art have meant the world to me, and I am grateful for the deep, profound, quiet moments of discovery and breakthrough we experienced together. You are an incredible artist, and your lovely soul shines through in every brushstroke or elegant line you create.
I’m thankful for the years we excelled as artists together and were able to see what we created go all over the world. I believe what we had was rare and precious and will always stand out as a profound chapter in my life, of healing and transformation.
As this chapter together closes and we move forward into the unknown apart, my heart is full of gratitude and also great anticipation of new levels of fulfillment and purpose for each of us. Although our marriage is ending, you will always be family to me, and as your friend and huge supporter and cheerleader, I will delight in watching you thrive and grow and become your very best self, becoming all that God intended for you.
I know that your greatest works of art are still in front of you, and your best days are just ahead. You are a kind and loving soul, and so many find comfort and acceptance in your presence. Thank you for who you are and all that you shared with me.
Love you,
Elli
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Elli, this is such a beautiful letter. I wish you all the best as you find your new life and your new normal.
I admire your grace. No doubt this post was not easy to write, but it truly heartfelt. Tenderly I send wishes that both of you are at peace, as endings can be bittersweet. Your chariot awaits warrior woman. God speed.
Coral
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Elli Milan Art replied:
Thank you🥰
Wishing you and your family all the compassion and strength as you navigate this new chapter in all your lives. 💕
Wow… what a beautiful, honoring letter. It carries so much grace, gratitude, and maturity. I can feel the love and deep respect in every word. What a gift to receive something so heartfelt.
It also speaks to the kind of life and love you shared—that it was meaningful and precious. I imagine it touches both grief and gratitude at the same time. I’m praying the Lord uses even this tender goodbye as part of His healing and peace for both of you.
Thank you for sharing something so personal. I’m holding this with you, and I’m thankful for the beauty, kindness, and blessing reflected in those words over your life.
I can only imagine how tender this feels to receive. There is grief in it, but also so much grace. I see the Lord’s kindness even in these words—like a blessing over a closing chapter.
Love to you! ❤️🙏🏼😁
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