An Open Letter to John
Dear John,
I wanted to share how grateful I am for you and your life and all that you bring. I could always count on you to be on my side and encourage me to keep going. You were always willing to do the difficult things in hard times and help your family with whatever they needed. You have never complained or felt too big to do the small things no one else wanted to do. Your humility and support show your kind and loving heart.
I’m grateful for our years in marriage together full of beautiful memories and fulfilling adventures. Although it might not have been your first choice, you were always willing to go with me to the ends of the earth. You made me laugh when I wanted to cry and cheered me up whenever I felt down.
You were devoted to your children every single day, lovingly caring for them, and always showing up 100%. You cuddled them, played with them, and were everyone’s favorite dad on the street. I appreciate your dedication and unwavering active love you brought as a parent.
Our years of collaborating in art have meant the world to me, and I am grateful for the deep, profound, quiet moments of discovery and breakthrough we experienced together. You are an incredible artist, and your lovely soul shines through in every brushstroke or elegant line you create.
I’m thankful for the years we excelled as artists together and were able to see what we created go all over the world. I believe what we had was rare and precious and will always stand out as a profound chapter in my life, of healing and transformation.
As this chapter together closes and we move forward into the unknown apart, my heart is full of gratitude and also great anticipation of new levels of fulfillment and purpose for each of us. Although our marriage is ending, you will always be family to me, and as your friend and huge supporter and cheerleader, I will delight in watching you thrive and grow and become your very best self, becoming all that God intended for you.
I know that your greatest works of art are still in front of you, and your best days are just ahead. You are a kind and loving soul, and so many find comfort and acceptance in your presence. Thank you for who you are and all that you shared with me.
Love you,
Elli
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To Ellie and John so sad to learn you are parting ways. Such a beautiful tribute to John and your life together. Praying for the Lords guidance as you transition this difficult time. Wishing you both every success in your respective careers.
It is never easy to say goodbye to all that is filled with memories, both good and bad.
I wish you both, peace in your hearts, as you move forward on your own path through life.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful letter, I wish you both happiness for the future. This poem came to mind
The Quiet Parting
No slamming doors, no angry tears,
Just the soft folding of our shared years.
We sit together as the sun goes low,
And talk of how it’s time to go.
We gave our best, we tried the path,
Without the bitter aftermath.
It is not hate, nor even blame,
Just recognizing we are not the same.
I’ll keep the books, you take the chair,
With calm acceptance in the air.
We’ll honor all the love we had,
And turn to go,2 and not be sad.
Goodbye to us, a gentle close,
As tenderly as petals from a rose.
A quiet ending, wise and true,
I wish the absolute best for you.
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Elli Milan Art replied:
That’s beautiful. Thank you.
Wishing the best for both of you. And definitely surprised. I’ve taken classes from both of you, and I think you’re both wonderful. And of course there’s always stuff we don’t know and don’t need to know. Not sure why you shared the letter to John with us. Seems like it should be a letter to him privately. Just not sure but I’ll be praying for you guys. I’m always sad When I see a couple split. Sending love..Sandee
So very sad to learn this. Your letter is beautifully written. God bless you both.
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