An Open Letter to John

Dear John,
I wanted to share how grateful I am for you and your life and all that you bring. I could always count on you to be on my side and encourage me to keep going. You were always willing to do the difficult things in hard times and help your family with whatever they needed. You have never complained or felt too big to do the small things no one else wanted to do. Your humility and support show your kind and loving heart.
I’m grateful for our years in marriage together full of beautiful memories and fulfilling adventures. Although it might not have been your first choice, you were always willing to go with me to the ends of the earth. You made me laugh when I wanted to cry and cheered me up whenever I felt down.
You were devoted to your children every single day, lovingly caring for them, and always showing up 100%. You cuddled them, played with them, and were everyone’s favorite dad on the street. I appreciate your dedication and unwavering active love you brought as a parent.

Our years of collaborating in art have meant the world to me, and I am grateful for the deep, profound, quiet moments of discovery and breakthrough we experienced together. You are an incredible artist, and your lovely soul shines through in every brushstroke or elegant line you create.
I’m thankful for the years we excelled as artists together and were able to see what we created go all over the world. I believe what we had was rare and precious and will always stand out as a profound chapter in my life, of healing and transformation.

As this chapter together closes and we move forward into the unknown apart, my heart is full of gratitude and also great anticipation of new levels of fulfillment and purpose for each of us. Although our marriage is ending, you will always be family to me, and as your friend and huge supporter and cheerleader, I will delight in watching you thrive and grow and become your very best self, becoming all that God intended for you.
I know that your greatest works of art are still in front of you, and your best days are just ahead. You are a kind and loving soul, and so many find comfort and acceptance in your presence. Thank you for who you are and all that you shared with me.
Love you,
Elli
Dear Elli,
Your letter to John is so beautiful. It saddens me to hear of your marriage coming to an end. You both have shared so many wonderful memories and you both displayed so much respect for each other. It’s a rarity to have two people separate with respect.
I wish you both a gentle and peaceful transition towards your new lives. 🙏🏻
💌Love🫂Yall💌
May this new book of life bring greater art work, thank you both for letting us know.💐
☀️❤️🩹❤️🔥🌅Story hasn’t ended,
we keep going.🌌❤️🔥❤️🩹🌙
I am in tears reading this, I love your family so much and I’m saddened to hear your marriage is ending…
You guys are always in my heart and I know that the decision was not easy. I support you all in prayer and I want the very best for each of you❤️🤟Brandee
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Elli Milan Art replied:
Thank you Brandee.
Dear Elli, Dear John,
I hope both of you find happiness and remain close friends, which I am sure you will. You have been a great influence on my art, and also my good friends. You both will follow your special paths in life and continue to treasure the happy moments you had as a family. I wish you both the best.
Bev Romero (Koldon)
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Elli Milan Art replied:
Thank you Bev for your support!
Ellie and John, my love goes to the both of you. This beautiful tribute, honoring the gift of your journey together, was deeply moving and so graceful. I wish you both a wonderful next chapter on your individual paths. All my love.
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