An Open Letter to John
Dear John,
I wanted to share how grateful I am for you and your life and all that you bring. I could always count on you to be on my side and encourage me to keep going. You were always willing to do the difficult things in hard times and help your family with whatever they needed. You have never complained or felt too big to do the small things no one else wanted to do. Your humility and support show your kind and loving heart.
I’m grateful for our years in marriage together full of beautiful memories and fulfilling adventures. Although it might not have been your first choice, you were always willing to go with me to the ends of the earth. You made me laugh when I wanted to cry and cheered me up whenever I felt down.
You were devoted to your children every single day, lovingly caring for them, and always showing up 100%. You cuddled them, played with them, and were everyone’s favorite dad on the street. I appreciate your dedication and unwavering active love you brought as a parent.
Our years of collaborating in art have meant the world to me, and I am grateful for the deep, profound, quiet moments of discovery and breakthrough we experienced together. You are an incredible artist, and your lovely soul shines through in every brushstroke or elegant line you create.
I’m thankful for the years we excelled as artists together and were able to see what we created go all over the world. I believe what we had was rare and precious and will always stand out as a profound chapter in my life, of healing and transformation.
As this chapter together closes and we move forward into the unknown apart, my heart is full of gratitude and also great anticipation of new levels of fulfillment and purpose for each of us. Although our marriage is ending, you will always be family to me, and as your friend and huge supporter and cheerleader, I will delight in watching you thrive and grow and become your very best self, becoming all that God intended for you.
I know that your greatest works of art are still in front of you, and your best days are just ahead. You are a kind and loving soul, and so many find comfort and acceptance in your presence. Thank you for who you are and all that you shared with me.
Love you,
Elli
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I’m sorry to hear that your marriage has ended. I do envy that you both support each other. After 41 years of marriage mine too has ended this year. I’ve finally had to realize I was living for someone else and had lost who I was. But your Milan program is a god sent to me. I’ve finally found the support I needed all these years. You and John are in my prays as you go through this.
Much love
Patricia
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Elli Milan Art replied:
Wow! I’m so sorry. I’m sure that must have been difficult.
Elli, this is such a testament to the power of love and acceptance. I thank you and John for the gifts you give to all the world. I’m excited to see the expansive and unrecognizable newness that is becoming you both. Peace and big love on your journey.
Dear Ellie, I am so saddened by this news. There are different kinds of marriages. My first marriage was a good friend after 22 years of marriage, I left him and I still regret it to this day. We were not romantic partners, but we raised our children well, and I miss his gentle spirit in my life.
My second husband matches my fiery personality 😊 however I have found that all marriages our work and probably none are perfect. I’m sure you have taken a lot of time over this decision and prayed to God for guidance. I support both you and John and send you much love and prayers.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
My prayers are with you and John and family as you step into this new chapter. Thank you for allowing us into your journey like we are family. Love you both
I wish you love, strength, and encouragement in the upcoming years. After my 25 year marriage, we – my former spouse and father of my children – had become different individuals moving in separate directions. I still cared for him, and, for my sons and grandchild, I worked to keep him in my life. It took time, but we are all the richer for it. I wish this for you and your family, too.
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