An Adventure on Crete: The Land that Brought Me Back to Life

I’m on a little ferry heading to one of my favorite places on earth. You can only get here by boat or by hiking a long hot, arduous, rocky trail in the cliffs. No thanks. It's a precious little treasure on the island of Crete we discovered in 2019. We included it in our Cretan Art Retreat as “Magical Mystery Day.” We didn't tell anyone what we were doing or where we were going, but just to pack their sketchbook and wear their swimsuit. I’m incredibly excited to get to come back here again.
The boat is loaded with Greeks piled on top of each other, all talking at once about various topics, but mostly family. Few tourists know about this place, and I’m trying to figure out why so many people are on this boat. I realize it is Sunday, but didn't realize it is “Holy Spirit Day” or Pentecost, until Steve, our friend, mentioned it.
Now I have dread and fear that we won't get an umbrella once we land. It is pretty hot, and Steve’s wife, Tony, burns to a crisp in seconds without an umbrella. Once you get off the boat, you are stuck all day until the boat returns, so an umbrella is crucial. I tell Steve, who is mild-mannered and very polite, that his one job in life right now is to get Tony an umbrella. I tell John too just in case.
I have fought Greeks for umbrellas before and thus far have never won the battle. I’m counting the people and trying to remember how many umbrellas there are on the beach. It seems hopeless, and I wonder if we should even get off the boat. There is a little taverna high up on the cliff and caves, so there are at least places to get out of the sun. I feel responsible since this was all my idea. I should have known it was Holy Spirit Day and we could have gone on a Tuesday while everyone was at work.
Operation Secure the Shade

We get close to the cove where this amazing place is located, and all the Greeks start to stand up despite the captain urging them to sit, pushing their way to the exit to make certain they will get an umbrella. I have totally lost hope that we will prevail in the umbrella war and am already thinking of Plan B. I’m scouring the beach for trees or shrubs or overhangs that could serve as shade. Worst case scenario we can sit in the taverna with a nice view and sketch.
John and Steve are in the bottom middle of the pack as we disembark. I watch the whole crowd of beachgoers walk/run to the umbrellas and throw their stuff down to make claim. I see every empty umbrella get full within seconds.
John is heading straight to the back, way up the hill far from the water in hopes of finding an empty one. He looks like he might actually do it, until a little dachshund jumps at him, barking and nipping at his heels. John breaks focus and is trying to fend off the dachshund. The Greek lady who owns the dog is yelling at the dog, and more umbrella seekers pass John by. But then Steve outflanks all of them in a slow, steady advance and gets within reach of the very last two umbrellas in the far back corner. He stands tall between them until John gets there.
My heart leaps in delight! We are saved! I tell Tony, “They got umbrellas! We will live!!” I can't believe it. We actually got two umbrellas and four lounge chairs. After the hot boat ride and all this stress, I am ready for a swim.
Where the Sea Meets the Soul

Although it is incredibly crowded, I am so thrilled to be here, and all the memories flow back to me. The water is cool and crisp and clear enough to see every detail of every rock 30 feet below. Every breaststroke makes me feel more and more alive.
Nothing compares to the water here in Greece. It is some ancient recipe for long life and vitality. It's like the water is charged with something otherworldly that brings you back to yourself and why you even live.
I swim out a ways and begin to pass by the numerous caves that line the cliffs and gaze at the incredible abstract art made by thousands of years of water, rock, sun, and wind. Raw umber lines traverse each rock in a curvaceous pattern that speaks mysteries and truths. I am undone again in the perfection of nature where the sea meets the rock in an eternal marriage that lines every coastline of all 2,000 islands of this remarkable country. My mind can hardly fathom where I get to be this day as I receive this baptism back into life.
A Table at the Edge of the World

Greeks like to eat lunch at 3 or 4 o'clock, so we decide to go to the taverna when it's empty at around 1pm. We get a prime table right by the edge to observe the incredible view from above. I remember this taverna fondly and that the food was outstanding. But as time rewrites events in our mind, I’m suspicious that I have an inflated memory of the food. I’m bracing myself for disappointment.
As I look at the menu, I remember they have a signature dish of Crete Sfakia pies, which come from the nearby village called Sfakia. They are kind of like Greek quesadillas, but they have sheep milk Cretan cheese inside a grilled crepe with honey. They have another dish called Boureki, which is like Greek scalloped potatoes, with fresh herbs and zucchini and cheese. We also order calamari, Greek salad, and souvlaki.
Our Greek feast arrives quickly with a table full of Alfa on draft. I am continually amazed at how quickly the food is prepared here in Greece from their tiny, not-so-commercial kitchens with only one chef—usually mama—and her helper. The food is even better than I remember it, and a dream begins to form in my heart. I remember that this place has some apartments up on this cliff by the taverna you can rent and stay here in the secluded place. I imagine renting a boat instead of a car for a week or 10 days and staying here with Zion and his little sibling and my family next summer.
Fed by Wonder

Of course the restaurant sends us off with a raki before we go. Raki is the distilled grape skin drink they serve here morning, noon, and night when you both come and go from anywhere. You cannot come to Crete without drinking at least 15 shots of raki throughout your trip. But if you like it, you can drink as much as you want beyond the obligatory shots. They say they drink it for their digestion…
After lunch, Tony and I defy the “no swimming after you eat” rule. I grab my mask, and we go out for an adventure. Just when our day couldn't get any better, I’m again brought to life looking through my mask at the mysterious world below. I see the striped fish rummage through the rocks foraging and the electric lines of light create a webbed pattern all around me. I am convinced it is this criss-cross light pattern that charges the water with life abundant, the Greek sea water where I can never have my fill.
Tony and I spend over an hour exploring the caves and taking pictures to preserve the memories we are creating. Steve is meanwhile hiking the famous gorge that begins at this beach, and we know he will be gone passed the 4 o'clock boat back. I am grateful we will miss our boat. I don't want the day to end.
Where the Light Never Leaves You

There are loads of Greek children here jumping from boats and paddle boards, living their best life. They have this constant connection with nature and the sea and the cliffs and the herbs and the natural food. It is in their everyday existence. They have their mamas and their grandmothers cooking for them, and they eat fresh fish and vegetables almost every day. Their homes are minutes from the sea, and they live in the most travelled to and desired destination on earth, yet they don't even know what they have. Many are raised to seek higher education and leave their country in pursuit of a lucrative career as doctors and engineers abroad.
Yet I come here to revitalize and invigorate. I am working with a steady and constant determination to own land and a home here one day. This land is special and profound. Its ancient drums beat into my soul a rhythm of an exuberant life I can barely describe in words. It calls to me constantly wherever I am. I see the sea and its light and crystal blue prisms in perfect clarity like a permanent tattoo on my mind. Greece is in my heart and will never leave.
We all have a passion that imprints itself on our soul. We all have places or moments that bring us back to ourselves.
Find what it is that makes you feel alive. When the passion comes and takes your breath away, don't let go. Rig your life and stack the odds in your favor to get to live it often. Revisit your passion and that which stirs your soul into a sublime energy that sustains you. This is your vitality. This is the fuel behind your dreams that give your life purpose. It is what keeps you going with gladness year after year. Nurture it, protect it, and keep it ever present.
What is the place or activity or purpose that makes you feel alive?
ELLi, I Love the way you speak about your adventures 🙌🏽 It allows me to “shadow” your every move while revisiting the memories I cherish from my own adventures. I like to create from my memories taking “collage pieces” to recreate & relive those experiences and feelings when my explorations became magical & timeless! When I create my furniture art, I see the piece in its current state begging to be transformed & I listen to it speak to me. Then, I’m transported to that magical place based off such simple things as a certain curve in the piece or an ornate attachment or simply by it’s shape. For example, I had this round, 2 tier end table that was a boring, white scratched up piece. No excitement, no energy, no thrills. I knew the top would be a main focus & the bottom tier could just accent the top. Being in this “transformative state of consciousness” inspired my “timeless portal” to open up my visions which pulled me to the scene where I watched my past moment in time unfold that ended up being the vision for this two-tiered, round end table I titled, “Night of the Koi Pond.”
I was exploring my neighborhood as a child, riding my bike with my favorite bouncy ball that sparkled ✨️ in the sunlight stuffed in my back pocket. It fell out & bounced down the long driveway wrapped around the back of a home on the historic Washington Street I grew up on. I Knew I was not allowed to enter anyone’s property. My grandma, whom raised me & my siblings taught us that but, I knew I would lose my ball for good & I was a fast runner, so without hesitation, I dropped my bike & I ran to capture it. Little did I know that I would capture more than just my sparkly, bouncy ball that evening. As I snatched my ball, it quickly dropped from my jittery hand due to my “flight or fight” responses being activated for fear of being caught on someone’s property. It went further down the sloped driveway & smacked into the brick wall & settled. I grabbed it, stood up & was met by a round, brick encased Koi pond filled with a variety of Huge, colorful Koi fish. I had never seen “goldfish” that big I immediately thought & why do they look like calico cats? How did they get there? How many are there? Are they “goldfish?” They don’t look as small as mines. What do they eat? How’d they get so big & outgrow their fishbowl? Questions raced through my mind and I was mesmerized & stared in awe.
They saw me & came up to me with big, puckered lips. I knew they wanted food but I didn’t have my fish flakes with me. I wanted to touch them but I was scared as they were bigger than my little hand. I was 7yr old. Then I heard an older women’s voice, “Hello there,” which jarred me out of my amazement & I started to run & she raised her voice & called out for me to stop. So I did. “I’m in trouble,” I thought. “Big trouble.” My grandma told me to stay off other’s property and I was far out from the boundary of my own yard. I’m in double, trouble & I knew the old woman was going to report back to my grandma. It was a small, historic town. Everyone knew everyone & word would spread before you got home which gave your parent(s) plenty of time to decide your fate. I teared up & was about to cry. The old woman asked my name, “Tosha” I welled up, as I waited to hear my fate. But, instead the old woman asked me if I liked her pond & if I wanted to take a further look. She slowly walked me to the pond & began to teach me all about her pond including the type of fish they were. I don’t know how long we were there but it felt like an entire evening. The sunset crept down & the old woman told me that I had better run home & that I was welcomed to come back anytime. So I went home. It wasn’t that long after that I remembered passing by in the car with my family & watching people coming out of her house with a rolling bed with a long black bag on it. I knew I would never see her again. She had died but that moment in time lives on forever inside of me. I even ventured back there one day to see how the fish were doing without her but, they were all gone & the brick fish pond was empty.
I hold many many experiences that were as magical as that moment then & although I did get in trouble for leaving our property without permission, it was all worth it in the end because I wouldn’t have had that moment with the old woman & learned about her and her Koi pond. I wish I could remember her name. Being able to relive that memory is both a Gift & a Blessing to me and to those who end up purchasing a piece of furniture that Spoke to them directly. Not only does that furniture piece which was created by a furniture designer in their time live on, the piece itself is transformed to live on & carry out a memory shared by the art I am Blessed to be able to design on it. I like to Believe that this transformative vision is meant to occur & bring together the past, present & future, transporting the “right” person who was called to own it, speaking directly to their soul. This is what keeps me going. These are my “magical marks” made on this earth. It’s my footprint in time!
I had transformed this two-tier table into a collaged, Koi fish “pond” with succulents/florals & a message. The 2nd (bottom) tier, called for a cursive writing “story stamp” with butterflies to represent the beautiful story the old woman & my 7yr old self shared. The butterfly 🦋 represented the ascension of her soul that took our story, our moment in time with her. I kept the piece & still have it today!
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Elli Milan Art replied:
You need to write a book! Seriously. Or at least a blog of all your magical moments. Loved this!
Yes Elli it’s Tuncurry and Forster. Twin towns in NSW Australia. There is a breakwall both sides and the ocean comes into the Great Lakes system. Our Lake is Lake Wallis. I’ve seen a big turtle and when we arrived a whale was trapped past the bridge! They stopped the traffic after 4 days and shepherded it out!
Love Leigh
I love this! I’m an ocean lover. I live near a tidal salty lake where I paddle board.(My Dad left me his stand up paddle and trailer.) When I navigate the currents and get out there the traffic fades to a hum across the long bridge. Pelicans skim low across the water and sometimes I kneel down and have dolphin encounters. When you’re 65 this impresses you with majestic moments!
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Elli Milan Art replied:
How cool! There are dolphins in this lake? Amazing! Where is this?
Wow, I would love so much to go to Greece one day thanks for sharing your wonderful experience. I think you’ll have a home there one day!
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Elli Milan Art replied:
Thank you! Yes! That is my dream!!!
I loved hearing about your passion and time in Greece! My passion was scuba diving in the ocean! It’s a place in which not many get to journey into and I had so many beautiful experiences (and a few not so good) down in this miraculous underwater world! Never ran into a Mermaid, but I believe they are there!!!
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Elli Milan Art replied:
I can imagine! I have never been scuba diving but it seems like it would be utterly wonderful like a full immersive experience of snorkeling but you have freedom to sink and breath underwater and totally explore
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