An Open Letter to John
Dear John,
I wanted to share how grateful I am for you and your life and all that you bring. I could always count on you to be on my side and encourage me to keep going. You were always willing to do the difficult things in hard times and help your family with whatever they needed. You have never complained or felt too big to do the small things no one else wanted to do. Your humility and support show your kind and loving heart.
I’m grateful for our years in marriage together full of beautiful memories and fulfilling adventures. Although it might not have been your first choice, you were always willing to go with me to the ends of the earth. You made me laugh when I wanted to cry and cheered me up whenever I felt down.
You were devoted to your children every single day, lovingly caring for them, and always showing up 100%. You cuddled them, played with them, and were everyone’s favorite dad on the street. I appreciate your dedication and unwavering active love you brought as a parent.
Our years of collaborating in art have meant the world to me, and I am grateful for the deep, profound, quiet moments of discovery and breakthrough we experienced together. You are an incredible artist, and your lovely soul shines through in every brushstroke or elegant line you create.
I’m thankful for the years we excelled as artists together and were able to see what we created go all over the world. I believe what we had was rare and precious and will always stand out as a profound chapter in my life, of healing and transformation.
As this chapter together closes and we move forward into the unknown apart, my heart is full of gratitude and also great anticipation of new levels of fulfillment and purpose for each of us. Although our marriage is ending, you will always be family to me, and as your friend and huge supporter and cheerleader, I will delight in watching you thrive and grow and become your very best self, becoming all that God intended for you.
I know that your greatest works of art are still in front of you, and your best days are just ahead. You are a kind and loving soul, and so many find comfort and acceptance in your presence. Thank you for who you are and all that you shared with me.
Love you,
Elli
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I don’t know you but my heart is heavy reading this. How can something so beautiful just end🥲
A beautiful and dignified letter. Words fail me. I’m feeling a touch of grief I don’t know why. My heart goes out to you. Thank you for sharing. Wishing you both peace, blessings and abundant joy. God is good. 🙏
I wish You ,John and all your family. Lots of love, prayers and healing as you work through this difficult time. May God watch over and bless you all. And I wish you both strength and Happiness . As you walk through into this next Chapter of your life’s journey.❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hi Elli! I’m so sorry to hear about you and John. I understand that you’re going through a lot and that it’s difficult. I’ve never been married and don’t have children, but I can still understand that it must be tough. I’m incredibly grateful for the teaching I’ve received from both of you. It has given me so much that I will carry with me throughout my life. I really just wanted to say that my thoughts are with both of you, and I’m sending you my best wishes after reading your open letter to John.
Best regards
Marianne
Elli, thank you for your openness and courage in sharing this. I know decisions like this come after deep reflection. Over the past few years, the Milan family has been a meaningful part of my journey, and I’m grateful for the inspiration you’ve shared with so many of us. Wishing you and John both peace, strength, and continued love within the beautiful family you’ve created.
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